I know something about you, just
because you are reading this text. I know that you are a smart and practical
person. You like to research a subject to make sure you make the right choices
and guarantee optimal outcomes. I wrote this article for smart people like you.
If you use this trait of yours, you will be hold back the impulses that work
against you during divorce. Playing it smart is a great way of making sure the
divorce goes as smoothly as can be.
And further, I won't to make one thing clear. Life is full of unfairness. Things will not always go the way they're supposed to go. The good people don't always get the right outcome. It doesn't matter how much you try to do things right, sometimes you will simply not get what you deserve. Divorce proceedings can end badly and you can be left feeling unfair about the outcome. This is normal.
Having a good outcome can be improved by doing different smart things. One of the smartest things you can do is to pick a really great divorce attorney. The difference between a good and bad attorney is humongous. It is the difference between an outcome that puts a smile on your face, or an outcome that leaves you depressed for years to come. This is one area where you must invest effort to make sure you get the absolute best possible. So don't be cheap, and don't be lazy. Do everything you can to find the best possible attorney.
A lot of the wiser people recommend that you avoid the court as much as possible. The idea is that you try to privately settle as many things as you can. Settle things between your attorney, you, your spouse and your spouse's attorney.
You obviously want to do this with the assistance and help of your divorce attorney however. You shouldn't attempt to do this without asking the attorney what to avoid and what your boundaries are.
And further, I won't to make one thing clear. Life is full of unfairness. Things will not always go the way they're supposed to go. The good people don't always get the right outcome. It doesn't matter how much you try to do things right, sometimes you will simply not get what you deserve. Divorce proceedings can end badly and you can be left feeling unfair about the outcome. This is normal.
Having a good outcome can be improved by doing different smart things. One of the smartest things you can do is to pick a really great divorce attorney. The difference between a good and bad attorney is humongous. It is the difference between an outcome that puts a smile on your face, or an outcome that leaves you depressed for years to come. This is one area where you must invest effort to make sure you get the absolute best possible. So don't be cheap, and don't be lazy. Do everything you can to find the best possible attorney.
A lot of the wiser people recommend that you avoid the court as much as possible. The idea is that you try to privately settle as many things as you can. Settle things between your attorney, you, your spouse and your spouse's attorney.
You obviously want to do this with the assistance and help of your divorce attorney however. You shouldn't attempt to do this without asking the attorney what to avoid and what your boundaries are.
By Jim Smith
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